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Is there hope?

My husband asked me to leave after two months of marriage. He told me that he doesn't love me anymore. Can my marriage be saved?


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Love is the battery of life....

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Very sad news.  First problem and a the marriage seems to break.  Any pair must build some mechanism to handle problems (disputes, arguements, etc).  I don't believe that you'll be able to settle things down.  So my best advice would be: Find a person that both of you trust and appreciate, and let him bridge between the two of you.  That person must be a sensetive and smart.  If you can't find a person like that try a proffesional guy (expert in "Bridging").  Don't break that marriage, it is too early.  Give it a chance.  Be smart !.  It's much easier to break than to build (That's a law in Thermodynamics).
I wish I was living next to you I would do that job voulanterely.  If I can help from far distance I'll do it (free of charge).
Best regards,
D"r D. Oron 
Posted 2007-08-20T04:23:37Z
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Thanks Oron for your answer. I can tell you some more about the situation. This is a second marriage. My first husband left with another woman. My new husband's wife passed away a year and a half ago. He says she mistreated him and he can't get past it. He also told me that he loved me with all his heart and soul, but after this short time together, he says he doesn't love me anymore. I don't know what to think about this.
Posted 2007-08-20T15:03:07Z
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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,


Sorry for the late reply (Just returned today from my annual leave). 
Tnx for the detales.  I think that the clue to the problem is in your husband.  One has to get knowing him in depth.  He is probably in some kind of a problem.  Still the best advise I can give you is: Find someone who could bridge between the two of you.   You seem 2B a very sensitive / emotional woman and I doubt if you could handle this situation by yourself. 
Wish you all the best and that you'll overcome it,
Posted 2007-08-26T07:48:13Z
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If you're wondering how to get him back, I recommend reading an e-book called the Magic of Making Up. The author is not a relationships “professional.” But he became very good at reading people and understanding what made them tick. He even got to the point where he could influence their behavior and actions. Many people have benefited from the Magic of Making Up. It's worth a shot.

 
Posted 2009-07-28T16:59:24Z
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If at all if you want to save your marriage,  know how to resolve problems with inequality in your marriage. You do not have to convince your spouse to change. You can work on the relationship even if your spouse doesn't see the need. Read Dr. Katie's guidefor more tips and secrets!
Posted 2009-08-27T08:24:30Z
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