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What should I do? Please help, I don't want my heart broken.

Me and my boyfriend were going out since junior year in high school. He is my high school sweetheart. Now that we have graduated we are going to different colleges. I am kind of scared because many people told me it wont last because we are going to meet knew people and move on. How do I know if me and him are going to stay together or not? Or at least should we split up? What is better to do, I don't know.

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There is no guarantee. You are both young and each of you is going into a different environment, meeting new people and just growing and maturing. But you can write to each other and use the computer for faster and easier communication. You will find that as you grow and mature your interests will change and that is good and to be expected. You are not the same person now that you were when you were 14. But there is no reason to break up, you and he might find that you will be strongly attracted to each other.


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Hi,

Right now alls right between you and him. But, your friends or those in the know are somewhat right...different strokes for different folks. Both of you are going to meet new everything over the 4 or so yrs, not to mention the fact each of you will grow older. Along with that comes the risk that one of you may find someone else. Mind you I'm not saying it will. Try to keep your mind open and not think with your heart. All you can do is whatever the two of you have agreed on as you part ways. No doubt you will keep in touch as time permits, the first holiday he will more than likely come home as you will, and things may be the same. If you leave that door open a crack he just may come through. On the other hand(don't say it can't happen), you may find someone else ok? As I said before. The point I'm making is its all a part of what life is really all about, there just are no guarantees as hard as we try to make it so.


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I would say give it a break. If it was meant to be it will be. BUT, if the two of you want to give it a try then it may just be worth it.


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Live simply, love generously, care deeply,

speak kindly, leave the rest to God.

Hi,

    If you both love each other, you won't easily be tempted to go out with anyone else.  Before he goes off to his new school, you need to have a heart-to-heart talk  and agree to be faithful to each other and that if one of you will fall in love with someone else, for both of you to be honest with each other.  That both of you will try to maintain communication with one another.

   You actually don't know what the future holds.  If you're meant to be together, it will happen.

   Good luck to you both.


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thank you, i really hope that me and him can be together because i really do love him. There is just one problem we broke up 2weeks ago and i really miss him. He is not contacting me in any way and if i contact him he wont talk or answer nothing. What can i do?


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     It is not easy breaking up with someone.  If he does not answer, then please leave him alone.  He has reasons why he does not contact you.  Your relationship is not a mutual one.  You care for him but he doesn't.  Please save yourself from future heartaches and headaches.  You deserve someone who will love you and care about you. 


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