Please help! :(

hardest thing to do is to let go.But sometimes that's all you can do. Remember you are the better person, you did nothing wrong. You sound like a person that has alot going for her and you can do anything. I was with a guy for 2 years, married and had 6 kids, I ended my marriage 6 years ago and had one son that really hated me for what I did. Every time I turned around, he would curse me, defy everything I said. I fought him all the way and he just graduated only because of me last year. He is 18 and we are working everything out little at a time. It was something I had to do and it made me a better person for it. Everything happens for a reason and I believe it now. I would have been married 33 years this year anhd my kids and 4 grandkids are closer than ever, they are my whole life. You let go and better your life for yourself and watch your self grow. My daughter is 32 years old now, but when she was 18 she met a guy to years older than me. Her dad and I tried to stop her, but she would not listen to us. We talked and all we could do is be there for her. She was married for 5 years and found out it was wrong, thank god there was no kids involved and when it happened, we were there for her. She loved him more than anything and she had to let go and she did. She is with an awesome guy, engaged and has a beautiful 5 year old boy, that is the apple of all are eyes and they are getting married after 6 years now. The moral of it all is there is the apple of your eye out there to, that will die for you and I know you will find him or he will find you. Good luck and I hope to here from you in the future. Invite me to the wedding.         mysixpackplus@aol.com  Please email me and let me know how you are doing?

Hi,
I don't think you are going to like my answer:  Sad story,  without a happy end.  To make it short you fell in love with him and he prefers your cousin.  You have now 3 options:
1.  Fight back (very not recommended, cause he decided already).
2.  Giove up and stay friends withhim (very not recommended
     cause it will "kill" you to see them together). 
3.  Move on, leave both of them alone, far away from your eyes
     and find someone you desrve. 
About that other evening: Such things happen, it doesn't mean that he is committed 2U, it only says that he liked you in a way and is attracted to you.  But on top of everything else he choosed your cousin on you !.  Better accept his will.  You have a remote chance that they will not get along and in that case he might return 2U.  Based on the way you described the situation I belive that the chances for that are slim.  Sorry. 
Best regards,

Hi,
No, when it comes to love, as any other deep feeling, we are not in control..... we follow our emotions..... So you are sure not over reacting....  When love is involved everything is "big deal".   Hard as it be (and it might be VERY hard) just try and follow what I adviced you.   Enjoy the weekend.   I have a strong feeling that the sun will soon shine to you too.  Start smiling !. 
Best regards,