in 1986 I lost a 11 and a half year old twin daughter. No seemed to want to talk about her, this was sad to me i wanted everyone to rember how wonderful, funny and beautiful she was. I'll bet she would love to tell you all about him. ask her if she will help you make a memory board of him, that she can keep, go to hobby lobby, and buy some great photo booking stuff. let me know how it goes