How do I give my girlfriend an orgasm?
She stimulates herself with her finger and sometimes asks me to fondle her breasts as she does it. She likes me to penetrate here and I am careful not to give her pain as we continue for some time. I hold myself back from orgasm in order to be with her throughout the loving-making process. I will stimulate myself later and climax on my own. However, I've stimulated my girlfriends vagina, and clitorus through oral and penile manipulation. She's told me it is very difficult for her to "climax" and has always been the case in her previous relationships. When I ask whether I am giving her any pain she says "no" and mentions she enjoys it. I've read and researched various articles online but, have yet to find out a way to bring her to that point. She mentions it is not important and our love-making is passionate, patient and bonding but, as she does climax through self-masturbation I know she likes to go to that 'next level'. I'd like to be a part of that. Is there anything wrong? Is she just being nice when she says 'its nice' and just to have me making love to her and inside her is enough? Please help...?