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How do I help my girlfriend orgasm

How do I give my girlfriend an orgasm? 

She stimulates herself with her finger and sometimes asks me to fondle her breasts as she does it.  She likes me to penetrate here and I am careful not to give her pain as we continue for some time.  I hold myself back from orgasm in order to be with her throughout the loving-making process.  I will stimulate myself later and climax on my own.  However, I've stimulated my girlfriends vagina, and clitorus through oral and penile manipulation.  She's told me it is very difficult for her to "climax" and has always been the case in her previous relationships.  When I ask whether I am giving her any pain she says "no" and mentions she enjoys it.  I've read and researched various articles online but, have yet to find out a way to bring her to that point.  She mentions it is not important and our love-making is passionate, patient and bonding but, as she does climax through self-masturbation I know she likes to go to that 'next level'.  I'd like to be a part of that.  Is there anything wrong?  Is she just being nice when she says 'its nice' and just to have me making love to her and inside her is enough?  Please help...?

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1) You gatta do what you gatta do to make you and your partner happy.

Try roll playing,sounds like some more that want's

Posted 2008-04-16T22:34:18Z
 

Thanks Augie13, I'll give it a try. 

Posted 2008-04-17T03:03:00Z
 
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Try licking her clitoris with your index finger rubbing the vaginal wall anteriorly which means front wall (the G spot), suck her nipples while penetrating, do not lie on her belly , instead have contact only with your penis inside her with your hands by her side like you are doing push ups ,while you are sucking her nipples, develop a rhythm and this position will bring in increased contact of your penis shaft to her clitoris, this will send her through the roofs, I have never had any woman not getting off with this technique, the bed spreads stain with their juices and that is when you know they are climaxing sveral times.

Good luck 

Posted 2008-04-27T00:41:20Z
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Innocentthe best gift in life is life itself.

okay so iknow that alot of women haven't even had an orgasim I am one of them. Which really sucks!!! At least she can climax through masterbation !!! Two ways obviously will cause an orgasim either stimulating her clitoris and vaginal intercourse seems to me she gets off from both try just watching her while she masterbates see which way she moves her finger how hard or soft she is. When she say's that she's happy just to be with you and to feel  inside she probly isn't lieing. It is the closest way to be with the person u love this is corny but when u r inside of her u are so close u become 1. It's the feeling of intamacy plus it does feel good!!! Best luck to you both  

Posted 2008-05-01T22:16:51Z
 

Thanks angelis.  its good to know im not doing anything wrong.  i cherish learning to please and i will take your advice and learn...learn...learn.  i too hope you are able to some day experience the joy of orgasm.

Posted 2008-05-02T09:24:07Z
 
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Innocentthe best gift in life is life itself.

yeah believe me I hope so to anyway females can be complicated in a man's point of view. really we aren't it is just you have to take your time and rediscover what we like. I said rediscover because what she might of liked last time isn't what she might like tomorrow. You've heard the saying too much of a good thing can be bad (something like that) I'll give you an example lets say u love pizza imagine eating it every night forever. Try to be creative change things around. Read between the lines see what kind of mood she is in and remember it can change at any moment. It might start off slow and romantic and then she might switch into a crazier mood from then on. Just pay attention to how she is reacting, body language is a great hint of what she might need. If she kisses you soft and gentle then she might be in a sweet good girl kinda  mood and if she starts like kissing faster and tries to tear clothes off well u should get the idea. Good luck and enjoy each other

Posted 2008-05-04T06:17:56Z
 

Hi Angelis, I totally agree with you.  If we all approach each new time (day) as a new experience we will neither get bored or impatience and look upon it as a loving adventure.

 Thank you for your sincere suggestions and sharing.

 Smile

Bill

Posted 2008-05-04T19:02:10Z
 

coming from a womans point of view who has had an orgasm let me give you some tips.

 oral sex usually seems to work on most of us.

so go down on her and lick the whole thing like an ice cream.

then just get really into itt and start goin to the veryy tipp at the top of the vagina.

then go down lick and finger the hole. then lick her ass a little bitt.. while playing wit her vagina with your handss..

 

thats a lil suttin add ur own taste to it if u wantt

Posted 2008-05-17T05:48:40Z

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