My married daughter recently told me she has bulumia. She has pretty much cut off all family ties because she says it is better this way. I'm at a loss. She only lives a short distance from me and, while I know she has to be the one to handle this, I will do whatever is necessary to help her, but I'm at a loss. If standing aside is what I need to do then I'll do it, but I don't understand. Any insights?