Please help

Hi,

    The fact that she chose you to be her boyfriend  over the others should make you self-confident.  If you are doubtful, have a heart-to heart talk with her and ask her if she is sure about her love for you or if she is still thinking of exploring more possibilities.  It's better for the both of you to be honest with each other  now than to be married later just to find out that this is not what she really desires. 

     She must have seen better qualities in you for her to choose you.  Try to be more loving and caring to her.  If after your heart-to heart talk, she'll tell you that she still wants to date other men, then try to be understanding.  She has the right to find someone compatible with her and who she will be happy with.  It's just like shopping in the department store.  One usually wants to buy the best item so that it will last longer than to just go inside the store, just pick up the first thing that she wants to buy without checking out the other brands down the isle.  Haste makes waste.  So give her time to choose who she really thinks will be good for her.  If she decides it's you, then just be happy.  If you're not the one, then just accept it graciously.  There is one good woman for you out there, who will love you and  care for you for a long long time.  It's not easy to find the right person, but you just have to be patient.

Take care and good luck to you.

if you don't feel you're good enough for her, then you have a problem. women don't care for insecure men, in general. either she is looking elsewhere, or you are terribly paranoid. either way, you're not going to be very happy

From a womans point of view....a guy who lacks self-confidence might as well put a big sticker on his back that says "undateable". I have alot of guy friends too and I can tell u that I love my guy VERY much! He, too, can get alittle jealous (as us women like to call it) and I have to quickly remind him that if it wasn't him I wanted, I wouldn't be with him. Have u shared these concerns with her? If so and she has done nothing or said anything to help you see its u first then maybe her loyalties are alittle dismayed, and that can be an issue. But if she has told you she loves you and wants you and only you, give her the benefit of the doubt. You can't punish her for your insecruities because that will push her away. hang out with her and her guy friends. Watch the body language and behavior between them (with a biast eye) and see what you come up with. Maybe you're the one whos not ready for a relationship and need some " me help" before you can share yourself with someone else. There is nothing wrong with protecting yourself from being the next fool who didn't see it coming but you will NEVER have a meaningful relationship with insecruitiy issue....trust me....I have had a problem with it myself. I hope I have helped, even if just alittle.

then again kutebug cheaters say those things before they go over to there guy friends house and fck his brains out behind there partners back.  Have you studied any psychology latly? women arnt anything, there not special and they dont think in a particular way. because in the end there human like the majority of there surrounding occupants.  

how would you feel if you were lacking self confidence, and no guy would want yah? be careful befor yah hang yah self with your own words i always say lol. Treat people how you would like to be treated regardless of how your feeling or vice versa. 

and marriage...well if woman act the way you say they do..being oh so sensative and everything...(NOT) then no wonder we havea high marriage failure rate! XD

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lmao holly, nice call^_^

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