This man at work has been very friendly/flirty with me, (he is 10 years older than me) calling me gorgeous, squeezing my shoulder and my hand, touching my arm when he speaks, he gave me a kiss on the cheek once, so all quite positive signs, I also find him attractive.
Anyway we often joke or have a non-serious argument and most of the time we both take it in good humour.
However today I was feeling down because of certain family issues, anyway he greeted me and was being very friendly and happy as usual. Today he also asked me if I was romantically involved with this other man i work with, i told him no and that we were just friends.
At one point in the morning however we had a bit of an argument though I was only trying to joke with him, he told me I needed to stop moaning and that he was only joking, I said I don't find the jokes funny, but in a playful way. Then he started arguing all seriously and because I mentioned id been depressed he went on about how he used to be on anti-depressents and knows about it, I was trying to tell him he didnt understand the point I was making and he carried on arguing anyway, then he said to me "You're one of those "GIRLS", with your head stuck up your own arse, don't talk to me anymore unless its work related ok?" :S I was really shocked and upset, and all through the day he did avoid me and not speak unless it was work related. He was chatting to other people fine!
It really upset me because I really liked him, I also feel very self-concious and I put myself down a lot so hardly stuck up! I think he got the wrong impression of me! But how can someone go so fast from being so friendly to hating me? :/
I tried asking him why he hated me he told me he doesn't hate me but he just can't be bothered :/ he said "work is work it doesn't mean we have to be friends" .... made me very upset I really liked this guy before :(
