I have been talking to this guy for five months. We knew eachother in high school, but I never knew that he liked me. It has been out in the open that he likes me since we started back talking. He goes to school 3 1/2 hours away but when he comes home, he spends his time with me. He spends the night with me in my bed. We basically act as if we are in a relationship, but are not. I have really started to develope feelings for him. He respects me...knowing that I am abstinent, he doesn't come at me in that way. I stayed with him one weekend and actually tried to have sex with him,but he wouldn't do it...which makes me like him even more. I have begun to get impatient becuase I like him and want to know where we stand because we haven't even kissed, I have just beeen waiting on HIM to make a move.
When I try to say things to strike up the convo, he avoids the question. When I actually did get him to, he told me that he really likes me but we have two totally different lifestyles. He wants to have fun and continue to like me and be friends until he is done having his fun, then possibly be with me. So, I went off. I feel as though he misled me, because says that he told me this a long time ago...BUT HE DID NOT. He was also like, "How do you tell a girl that you like something like that???". I was so mad that I cussed him out and told him to leave me the hell alone and deleted his number,pictures, and removed him from my facebook and myspace. I miss his convo and after I have cooled down, I would like to still be friends with him. Is it not worth it???