Do guys care for looks or personality?

Truthfully us guys are visual anmals.... at first glance the looks is what gets our attention and desire to make contact... another fact about guys is what they like... any woman is a woman at first glance, but preferences take over... is she brunete, red, blond, skinny, heavy, overly made up (tacky), slutty, sophisticated.... What "one guy really likes" varys from guy to guy.... then personality takes over for the long term, if a guy really like his woman its because they can communicate and relate... As for this guy I despise wafer skinny it looks anorexic and unhealthy, I like athletic and strong if it come with 20 pounds over the average then so be it...

like my man says he dont care bout looks just my personality but he says i am always hot to him anyways.  so i guess it depends on the guy.

Yes and no.  I have dated many women, some for their looks and some for their personality.  The ones with both are a plus but usually married before I meet them.  Once you get past a certain age, your body is a reflection of your personality.  The older you get, the truer this is.  The dissipation or care you took with your body shows, and a beauty queen at 20 can party down and look like a hag at thirty and still wear the same clothes.  And vice versa, a gawky overweight girl can love herself and care for herself and end up a raving beauty at forty.

So, if you're trying to make a choice between having a good personality and having a good body, you can have both.  Take personality first, and a body to match it will follow.  And so will the guys. 

i agree with profitbob.  yes and no it really depends on the guy.  if i were you though i would feel good about myself and my personality and the body will come right along with it.  if you feel good about yourself, it shows.

well looks will obviosly be the initial attraction just like any other human being regardless of male or female but after the first couple weeks of getting to know each other a man wont stick around if your just a raging B**** all the time. belive me

Yes, I do believe guys go for personality a lot of times. At first, no. But as men age they start to do this. When guys are young, obviously they're about sexual attraction. That definitely does change though, with most guys, definitely not saying all of them. If a women gains 20lbs but is still confident in herself, then yes, she should feel good about herself. If she gains 20lbs and is depressed and self conscious, then that's how guys will look at her. A lot of men like confident women.