The guy i have a crush on does he like me as well?

Hi Crystal.

     It looks like he likes you and also has a crush on you.  It seems like he's shy.

If I were you,  I would invite him to dinner because he did not accept the rest of the money that you were giving him.  Just tell him you owe him dinner, you wonder when he'll be available to go.  Just talk to him as a co-worker and a friend and see if he will say and reveal something.  You have made the initial step to take him to dinner and the rest should be his initiative.  Just ask him about his family and how his "girlfriend" is doing  and see what his reaction will be.

    Hopefully he will tell you that he likes you too.  So let us know what will transpire just in case you will try this plan.

Take care and Good luck.

Hi,
My dear friend, DB Lady, gave you an excellent advise, as she always does (gave her 2 thumbs up).  Two thing bother me:
1.  You tell all others that you like him /
     have a crush on him and not face to
     face to him.   He should be the first
     one to know !.
2.  You prefer to guess if he likes you
     too or not rather than find it out,
     face to face.
Yes, he seem to like you and he is sure a shy person.  Knowing that he is shy you should take the initiative and lead / be pro active / encourage him to act.  There are many ways to do it.   Get to know him and give him a chance to know you (by that he will feel more secure and hopefully his shyness will dissapear).  I have the feeling it's a beginning of a love story.
Best regards,

Always hard to do a follow up after the ladies above... but may I add... I see you have put in all the facts about why you are confuses... remembering where you parked @ a concert last summer... ppl dont remember things without a good reason... a crush would be a good reason... and then how it came out thru co-workers u liked him... but what I dont understand is.... if he was told... why wouldn't he let out the fact he too has a crush in return???? co-workers would have ran right back and tried to play cupid... maybe... anyways... considering your situation I believe DB Lady has given you a very clever way to find the answer to your question... good luck... hope you catch your shyboy:))

I could get into trouble with the rest of the tribe for telling you this, but us guys tend to see women one of three ways:  1. a strictly physical attraction  or 2.  relationship material or 3. "nice girl, but just wanna be friends"

Guessing is painful, and may be misinterpreted.  I saw a study once where work is prob. the most usual place to meet potential boyfriends/girlfriends.  However,

it can also put a a lot of pressure on both parties when the folks at work get involved.  My suggestions are twofold:  A.  Take everybody at work out of it, and

politely, but firmly resist discussing ANYTHING, ANYTIME, ANYWHERE at work as work gossip is a real turnoff for some guys.  2.  Take the guesswork out of this thing.  When no one else is around, ask him out for coffee, or lunch on a day off.  See how that goes.  These are very safe type pre-dates.   If you like the

way the coffee, or lunch goes, tell him nicely that you think he is an interesting guy, and that you wouldn't turn him down if he asked you out.  If you get that far, leave it at that.

He's a big boy.  He can figure the rest out.  Most guys would be flattered, but be prepared to accept what he tells you. 

Hi Les,

    2 thumbs up to your smart answer.  Yes, you raised an important point about having a boyfriend in the work place.  People like to create gossips and it's good to keep co-workers out of it.

    I saw that you just recently joined Yedda.  Welcome to Yedda !  I hope you'll enjoy being a part of it.

   I know Punta Gorda.  I have a friend who lives there.  In fact I'll be going on vacation next month for 7 days,  I love Punta Gorda, very nice place.

Your answer was great.  Punta Gorda nice when no storms.  LOL