So, I've been seeing this girl for about a year and a half off and on. We get together for a month or two then she gets really stand off-ish and starts blowing me off and then breaks up. Everytime, right when I'm starting to heal up and move on she jumps back into the picture, going on 6 or 7 times now. I've tried to cut her off but she'll show up at my house crying and giving me the sob stories. Now when she breaks up with me I just ask her how before she will come running back this time...
I do love her but the games are wearing me out. I've done some really nasty thing to try and keep her away, i.e. mean texts, putting messed up pics on myspace, donating all her things she left at my house to goodwill but in the end she always seems to come back.
I think the most frustrating thing is when I want to talk and get answers to figure out whats going on, ya know, communicate, she just ignores me for days and weeks at a time.
She was recently divoreced when we met and has two small kids . I've tried to be repectful and understanding and always told her to put them first but I really expect people who care about me to respond when I'm trying to get in contact with them.
I'm 28 and have always had a clean break/no contact rule when it came to girlfriends. I really liked her though and just keep on going through the motions with her.
