Is my girlfriend a virgin?

Hell..After ALL Your GRILLING, I HOPE SHE IS,and Doesn't Bother WASTING IT on YOU!!

Keep This Act Up and You'll NEVER GEt Laid.

Hi There Peter,

The truth is there is no way to tell other than the hymen being present if the girl is a virgin... and even then the hymen can be broken by her own masturbation technique or by tampons, climbing a tree, etc.

the best thing to do is to believe your girlfriend.. she will know if she is a virgin! If she says she is your first and she hasn't lied about things like this in the past...then she is probably telling you the truth...

anyways enjoy your life...don't worry som much about virginity it's not a good measure of a woman... she could be a virgin and still cheat on you tomorrow! You should just treat her and every other girl you meet with respect and dignity..as if they were virgins and forget about stereotypes and whatnot... you are just setting yourself up for dissappointment otherwise.

V.

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Unless your girlfriend seems to be a sad, insecure girl who seems to need to get  attention by being indiscriminately sexual--a creature deserving of pity, not scorn--and you suspect she has had many partners joylessly, not because she had a string of lovely, considerate, sexually experienced boyfriends--lucky girl-- your need to know is sexist. And the definition of "losing one's virginity" is despite so-called modern sexual liberation for women is still profoundly sexist. Losing it for a women means only that she has been penetrated by a penis--without or mostly wihout orgasmic pleasure sometime during trhe encounter. Most women do not have an orgasm merely through the motions of intercourse--so the first and sometimes the twentieth time is not the real thing. For men it means fully entering a vagina and almost invariably having an orgasm. Let's redefine it--losing your virginity should mean the first time you have an orgasm throgh the efforts of a partner.  So girls need to find out what their bodies want and boys need to get educated. Having sex needs to mean mutual pleasure--and that means girls' pleasure since men's pleasure is inevitable.  Does it matter to your girlfriend if you are a "virgin"? Hardly. Your best bet--treat every omwen you sleep with like a virgin. Take charge but go slow--kissing, touching, exploring and asking what she wants. Provide a nice oral sex orgasm. Then explore her g-spot-- you can find it even if she didn't know  where it is, on the front wall of the vagina--and vigorously keep tickling until she has a mind-blowing orgasm. Have intercourse from behind and give her more. Kiss some more, ban some more. Laugh. Moan. Have fun--and you'll get your rewards head to toe, babe. 

if you have to push extremely hard and meet with a reasonably measure of resistance this is a posative sign. if it just falls in then this is a negative. if you marry her you will probably have to have her re-bushed.

Usually a virgin will have a hymen, (piece of skin covering opening, 3-4 different types.)   The ripping of the skin will cause a little bleeding or staining after intercourse (check the sheets afterwards).  However, many females are born without a hymen which created for much humiliation and divorce many years ago.

So, my friend she may or may not be a virgin.  Or you might try trusting  the woman you plan to call your girlfriend, maybe someday wife.  And if all else fails, try trusting the thing you should be in tune with -- Your own gut!!!

Agree with OGRastamon and Whtspt -- 2 intelligent responses.

Add:  It's sad that puritanical social thinking and religious endoctrination—over many hundreds of years—have instilled in minds of many younger men such a senseless obsession with whether their girlfriends are "virgins".   In this era of greater enlightenment—which allows one to think logically and not just accept things simply because "it's always been that way/or believe what you think society says."  Intelligent people, in modern times, get past obsessing over whether their girlfriend is a "virgin."

As posts accurately say (above) ...  it's near impossible to know in most cases—other than by doctor evaluation.  P.S.:  Any girl asked to have such an evaluation done by a wanna-be boyfriend should dump him just based on that alone:  the combination of distrust combined with stupidity makes for horrible boyfriends!

As the 2 posts mentioned accurately observe:  If your girlfriend has had sex before—and so long as she is free of STDs (sexually transmitted diseases)—then you are probably both better off.  Better off in the sense that: your "sex life" with her will probably get off to a better start for both of you.  

The primitive, animalistic notion of a very small number of men might make some think the idea of being that stud that gets to "break the cherry" (rip the hyman, hurting the young girl with his "big member" and making her cry and bleed) is erotic (turns them on).  But, as I prefaced it:  this is so primiative and animalistic to think that way; if that is more than a passing fantasy, you might need to see a sex therapist if you have such sexual desires (it might even be the seeds for becoming a sexual predator).  The theory of sex with a virgin being special is purely theoretical; in reality it is usually not a very rewarding sexual encounter for either party!

Also as Whtspt suggests:

I agree, it is GOOD IDEA to both get tested for STDs prior to having a sexual relationship if you want to be safe and if there is a possibility of prior sex (or known prior sex or just as a matter of course) and if you intend unprotect sex.  

That is a FAIR AND REASONABLE REQUEST for a potential sex partner to request the other to be tested for std's before taking a relationship to sexual.  It's ok to DEMAND testing.  I dated an intelligent, younger college girl recently and she DEMANDED I have std testing and she wanted t