My girlfriend has very low self esteem. She thinks ...

It's a really tough thing to deal with. I can only say that if you love her, be patient with her. Give her plenty of reasons to see that she can indeed trust you. Show her often, that you love her and only her. When you've been hurt so many times, it is truly hard to learn to trust again. The love you have for one another will get you through the rough spots. Professional counseling can help. Especially if you suggest it first. She will see that you are genuine in your sincerity and commitment

Believe it or not you can have an influence on how she behaves. Consistancy  (at least for women) is vital to the trust process. Do what you say you're going to do, and don't do what you say you're not going to do. Be honest...even if you feel as if she may get upset with what youre telling her...try to tak things thru with her and get her to understand that your intentions are good. If you love her and are comitted to her, believe it or not (contrary to many mens belief system ) it IS your responsibility to to build the trust and help her feel secure with you. Maybe she isnt guilty of having low self esteem, but just being human.

tell her she is beautiful and you dont have a want for any other.  Also introduce her to your friends and be proud about her being your gf.  If you present her to your friends as someone you care for she will feel valued and quit worrying about it.

Hello,

     She seems to have very low self-esteem.  Just reassure her again and again that you care a lot abot her and don't have any intentions of hurting her, and leaving her for another woman.  Don't show her anything that will make her suspicious.

     Don't talk about previous  gorgeous girlfriends  because that will make things worse.  I hope she will overcome this problem because if not, this will affect your relationship in the future.

Well good luck to you and your girlfriend and I wish you both happiness.

Most girls are like that.It's because they dont want to get hurt again. They have been hurt so many times that they dont have the guts to trust people anymore. So if you truly love her, wait a little more.Give her some time.Let her know you're different from other guys. Be there for her when she needs someone to talk to.Show her how much you love her and how much she mean to you in the world.

make her feel beautiful. tell her she's gorgeous. make her feel needed. be there for her. love her liek you've never loved anyone before. she'll some around if you truly do love her.