Ok, heres my situation, i met my girlfriend about 3 years ago on a summer holiday, we got on really well and liked each other alot. When i got back i found out she had a bf, but she left him for me after a while.
This is a long distance relationship, i dont see her too often but the love has always been there and at one point we were even talking about marriage and the like.
There were no problems apart from the odd guy who decided he liked her and told to try to make her leave me, it never woked. The first big issue was when her lesbian best friend go her to cheat on me twice, this was at the same time that she told me she thought she was bisexual which i forgave her for and moved on from eventually but there was always a scared doubt in the back of my mind.
About 2 weeks ago now she suddenly got very upset over something, she wouldnt tell me what it was but she took out the emotional downturn on me. And after that she said that she thought we were drifting, which i didnt think we were, i assumed she was just upset.
As a result of that i doubled my efforts to make her feel loved and after a few days everything felt fine again untill she called me clingy, so i backed off a little bit, but since then she has stopped saying "i love you" almost completely, i asked why and she says shes just pre-occupied at the moment although she isnt telling me what with or anything.
because of that im scared shes found someone else that she likes and likes her back and im not sure how much more of her distancing i can take, i need to know if shes cheating on me or not.
also i have no access to her email, msn, phone, myspace etc.... i need another way to know.
Please help
