first of all,why don't you trust her?could it be cause you have cheated on her,so you automatically think that she's cheating too?you say that you feel that she doesn't value or respect your relationship......well,babe,you are the one who doesn't value or respect the relationship!the fact that you had sex with other girls,means that YOU can't be trusted!you don't love her,if you did,you would never have cheated on her!you're just upset that maybe she's the one doing the cheating now!