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How do you know if you girlfriend cheated bringing in the New Year ...

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If your girlfriend is cheating? New Years I spent with my family and from what she tells me she spent with hers.

The only difference is I called her serveral times around 12:00 to tell her I love her etc.... we would work out our problems.

 She didn't answer her phone in fact  she didn't call me back till 8:00pm the next day! Of course I was extremley pissed and ruined my night. But her excuse was that she was drunk on her brothers couch and she had her phone in her purse which made it even worse.

I want to believe her story

But it sounds like such a bullshit and I mean the frist thing I though about when NEW YEARS came was her.. And I thought it will be the same.

 

I really don't know what to do because I'm deeply hurt and I really am thinking about breaking up because I feels she doesn't vaule our realtionship or respect 

 What should I do? Do you think she was cheating around 12:00 thats why she couldn't answer let me know I really need help on this one. I mean I cheated on her before but onl

y a few times and I don't love any of those girls. But no call on New Years!! because your wasted I would be a fool to stay with her wouldn't I? Or does she want me to break up with her and that is like her way of telling me.. I'm clueless but I know I don't want to spend 2008 waisting my time in a bullshit realtionship!

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I like how you put that Dollamann.. "it's in a mans nature to cheat, she is just a hoe."  Do all Woman kind a favor,  (use that as your pick up line)!  And don't worry about not getten any... as you've learned, hoes like hoes!

 
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OK, here's that "rest of the story . . . . "  She WAS on your brother's couch and probably drunk as she claimed.   For that matter, he phone was probably in her purse (good a place as any to put you phone).  But she never said she wasn't doing something else on that couch other than sleeping.  And she probably heard the phone ring in the faint distance, but wasn't about to tell that hot guy to get off her in the heat of the moment.  And, if she's anything like me, she's thinking, the a**hole has it coming. 

 
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 Be honest and be true to yourself.

Hi Dollaman,

    You posted your question 9 months ago.  Have you resolved this problem?  Are you still with the same person?

Any updates?

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If you want to see if someone is cheating you should track them. live vehicle tracker .com has a great system

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Isn't it interesting that she didn't find you worthy of spending New Years Eve with, but picked staying on her brother's sofa instead?  That's a lot of bullshit!  Don't let her play you for stupid.  Move on.

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Love without trust is not love, except is y'all are not trying to have anything serious...

 

 

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