How do you know if you girlfriend cheated bringing in the New Year ...

How do you know

If your girlfriend is cheating? New Years I spent with my family and from what she tells me she spent with hers.

The only difference is I called her serveral times around 12:00 to tell her I love her etc.... we would work out our problems.

 She didn't answer her phone in fact  she didn't call me back till 8:00pm the next day! Of course I was extremley pissed and ruined my night. But her excuse was that she was drunk on her brothers couch and she had her phone in her purse which made it even worse.

I want to believe her story

But it sounds like such a bullshit and I mean the frist thing I though about when NEW YEARS came was her.. And I thought it will be the same.

 

I really don't know what to do because I'm deeply hurt and I really am thinking about breaking up because I feels she doesn't vaule our realtionship or respect 

 What should I do? Do you think she was cheating around 12:00 thats why she couldn't answer let me know I really need help on this one. I mean I cheated on her before but onl

y a few times and I don't love any of those girls. But no call on New Years!! because your wasted I would be a fool to stay with her wouldn't I? Or does she want me to break up with her and that is like her way of telling me.. I'm clueless but I know I don't want to spend 2008 waisting my time in a bullshit realtionship!

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ya I did..  I will do a pre-hore screen before I get in another realtionship 

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I'm not perfect but when I did cheat I repented... Which means I did do it anymore or continue to have sexual realtions with any other women. But to Cheat on me for 3 years...  " I DON'T FUCK'N DESERVE DAT"

Posted 2008-01-09T03:51:59Z
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It's in a man's nature to cheat... not saying I'm okay with it cause I'm not but it's in are nature.. she's a hoe..and if you agree with her maybe  ya'll should start to hang out I can hook u up.. she getts around

Posted 2008-01-09T03:55:49Z
 

If you have to ask these questions about the person you should have all the trust in the world in why would you bother? 

If she says she didn't then you have to believe her.  If she is lying she has to live with that guilt every day.

 

 

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Smile at someone today. It is contagious.  If someone looks like they need help.  HELP them it is contagious.

Ok you are pissed because you think she cheated on you and you are hurt and yet You've only cheated on her a few times.  WHAT IS WRONG WITH THIS SITUATION!!  Why is it so hard for you men to be faithful.  You think it is ok but you didn't love those other women.  Thank your lucky starts your girlfriends name is not Lorrana Bobbitt.  This is what they call KARMA.  It sounds like you are already wasting your time in relationships periods!!! You need to find the one girl that makes you only see her.  One time cheating can be forgiven.  But TWICE??? It is hard for me to understand the hurt you are feeling when you have cheated the times you have.  When you meet that special person you know when it happens.  No other person is on your mind when you are together or apart.  You can look at the cookie jar all day long that is part of human nature, as long as you don't try any of the cookies.  I really hope you find that person because I must say it is worth the wait...GOOD LUCK to you

 
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She not necessarily cheated on you but obviously this relationship means not much to her if the first thought in 2008 was not you... Do not waste much time on her.. specially not money:)

 

maybe if you didn't cheat on her you wouldn't automaticly think "she's cheating" when she doesn't answer. she probably did get wasted drowning her feelings/sorrows wondering if u were with someone who didn't "mean" anything 2 u...again. 

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"but i only cheated on her a couple times n i dont love them"

I'm sorry but you don't deserve her loyalty if you think that it's ok for you to cheat.

i'm not trying to be mean but IF she did cheat,you sort of deserved it.

 

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