ty everyone by the way for helping me.
This is a reasponse to JoshDragos.
All i can say is that you told her on msn kinda a downside to telling a girl that you like her.
Also what nightmajic said:
by being yourself. hopefully you are a kind and caring person, that should shine through if you are. show sincere interest in her likes, don't be fake. don't lie. don't over do it. you honestly can not "make" someone like you. if it feels like work, you need to move on.
That's pretty much what you got to do.