I honestly think you are better off looking for someone who is w/o kids. It's obvious she is daddy shopping. and yes possibly using you.if she doesn't have a job then I call that a red flag and you really shld think abt it. You don't need to wonder is she's using me again cause if you are thinking that then it's really not worth the hassle. YOu don't need the stress. I guess that's what i'm trying to say. Always trust your instinct. It will never steer you wrong. If you don't feel that she's into you then she's not.