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Am I getting mixed up with a player?

I met this guy about a month ago... and we hit it off. I thought that it might go somewhere... but all he wants is sex. I don't know if I am ready for that... I am 18 years old and still hold my big V. He told me that he does not want a relationship and that he just wants to be "friends with benefits". My sister... and sister in law have told me to wait.. and to not do anything. But I feel that if I don't wait then it may lead to something better... like a relationship. I don't know if I got myself hooked on a player, and whether I should keep talking to him or not. He does not live around me... when I go to college he will be closer and he said that he would be visiting me more. I really like this guy and don't know what to do...

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Skitch

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Surrender. Surrender. But don't give yourself away . . . .

~ Cheap Trick ~

He was very clear with you. He doesn't want a relationship. He just wants to be friends with benefits. Make your first time special. Find a guy that you really love, that will wait until you are sure and ready. This guy wants to get laid, and it will only lead to you losing your virginity and then hating yourself for doing it. Love should come first ~ then sex. It rarely happens the other way around. He has to fall in love with YOU not your body, to have a meaningful relationship. Tell him to bug off. Your virginity is too precious to give to a guy that won't even appreciate it.

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top54u

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Treat Others The Way You Want Yourself To Be Treated

pls excuse my harsh words but i feel the guy is not worth for a relationship. He made his point rather very clear when he said he just wants "friends with benefits". so best would be to stay away from him.. if you are still in a drooling over it then go through

http://home-family.top54u.com/post/Is-it-Love-or-Lust.aspx

It might help you develop a clear mindset and help you understand things in a better way.. All the best

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Doug

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Sex4 two doesn't lead to a solid relationships, but if you want to get used, Well, It's your life.

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AIDA1987

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All this man wants is to get that v! And he now will tell you anything you ant to hear to get it. You should save that for a man that shows you he really loves you and is willing to stay with you. If you fall into this players bull! You are going to get very hurt and regret it for the rest of your life! Cut him off and give yourself the self respect you soo very much deserve and show him you are not one of the one's he got his way with! Good luck!

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