Is he gay?!? help me

Yea of course

If he isn't, his boyfriend is.

Wow! that does seem pretty gay. i mean for me that would be pretty easy to scope out because i hav "gaydar" senses with me bein gay myself. imma say he is but maybe you should investigate the situation a little more and play nonchalant..it gets you a long way. but then again what is there to figure out? the answers are there

The only way to find out is to ask him, and even then you cannot be sure because there's nothing to say he'll give you a truthful answer.

Have you considered he could be bisexual and he just can't decide which team he wants to bat for this month?

I'd avoid sex with him until you feel more certain, and even then please be sure you use protection. Unlike crabs, AIDS is not something you can get rid of.

well i wouldnt say gay may be he just likes guys and girls in another word BI i would ask around and see what other people see before i try anything to risky with him. I hope this helps

That depends on how long was the kiss, and where exactly was the kiss planted.  Slept in the same bed? Now that's another issue. Did he not have any extra blankets or pillows for the guy to sleep on the sofa, or make a pallet on the floor?  What do I think?  It all depends like I said, " I would just come on out and ask!"  The dumbest questions are the one that aren't being asked. ASK!  The question should have been, "Should I stay in a relationship w/ a guy who has slept in bed w/ another man and who have also kissed another man?  Then you're opening up a whole new can of worms.

yep.. no straight guy would kiss his fellow men on the cheeks.. that's awful

The easiest and quickest way to find out: ask him. Don't speculate and ask around, ask HIM.