How to gain sexual confidence

Hi,

Oron gave you great advice. I would just like to add that practice makes perfect. Listen to hear, watch her expressions, stay attuned to her feelings and reactions. You will soon learn what it is she likes. Do it and improve it.

Good luck and best wishes. 

She may have more experience,but she obviously didn't STAY with any of those past partners so it's safe to say they weren't giving her what she really wanted.There's a difference between sex and intimacy.From personal experience I would rather have a partner who blows my mind in other areas besides the bedroom.The more you stimulate her mind and humor the better your sex life will be.For women,sex is about 90% mental.

I went Salsa dancing once, and looked at the dancers, some people were really working hard to impress the crowd, they did a lot of fancy moves and flips and so on, and barely listened to the music, it looked ridiculous, other dancers were just doing the simplest moves and looked amazing, why?! cause they weren't trying to impress they were enjoying themselves, they were inside the dance, not outside.

The worst thing you can do while you are having sex with her, is being wrapped up in thoughts about how to impress her and what to do next, be immerse in the moment and just enjoy the sex as much as you can - be attentive and listen, just try touching different parts of he and see how she react, what she likes, what she doesn't like.

Get excited a lot and let  her know how much you are enjoying her, that's the best thing.

spanish fly should do the trick

I agree with MusicIsMyHotSex  

Be attentive to her and her want and needs and you will come out a winner.  I have had lovers that were great "perfomers" in the past, but not intune with me.  Good Luck.

Ask here what she wants. give it to here. be slow. have your goal to fully satisfy her. when she says now don't prolong it more get her to beg for it. eat her out. make her come. tease her, make her moan in estacy, be completly uninhibited, make it last, over and over to complete exhaustion.

As everyone says in the responses above, first ask her what she wants and likes from her lover. Sometimes this works best if you discuss her sexual preferences during erotic foreplay, as you bring her to orgasm. She will be very sexual in her response! Go very slowly. Be gentle. Plenty of foreplay. Forget worrying about your performance in bed. Enjoy yourself also! You are not one of her previous lovers, so don't try to emulate them.