Another friend??

Hey, I know exactly how you feel, I'm in a similar situation with my boyfriend. First, what you need to do is plan things for you and her to do together that take up a lot of time. Make plans to do something in advance so that way if he happens to ask her to hang out she will already have plans with you. The second thing is you need to be upfront with her, I understand how it is when they get angry because my boyfriend is the same way but you need to tell her that she is your girlfriend and you want to spend time with her as well. And lastly, you need to ask yourself if you trust her, if you do then you should believe what she says about him being just a friend. I know how hard this situation is and it does really suck but It helps when you know others are in the same situation. I wouldn't get yourself too worked up about this, if you and your girlfriend are happy with one another then it'll be okay. Everything will work out, good luck!

I'll give you some vague advice but you didn't leave many details... Like how you feel about this and what your gut is telling you about their involvement... Or are you around and involved with the relationship... are you invited to hang out with them together? Does he come over and eat with the two of you as a couple? What type of things do they do together? If her relations with him are seperate and you aren't involved... I think you should ask to be included make yourself available instead of jumping on defense... and take things from there...

If she says he's not a romantic interest, then chances are, he's not! Just take a breath. Even though she is probably head over heels for you, she still needs the freedom to hang out with other people. And, just because the person she hangs out with is the opposite sex, it doesn't mean that he is more than just a friend! I'm sure you have some friends that are girls. But you still love her, right? Give her some space! Don't bug her about it all the time....but if it keeps going on for a while and you suspect they may be more than "just friends", then talk to her about in private. I hope this helped...