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Why is my best friend lying to me?

 asked her why am I feeling like you don’t want me to move on?
She said I told you to move on over the phone
I said No you didn’t I asked you do you see us being more than friends you said not at the moment no, how am I supposed to move on with that reply?!?!”
She never said to me to move on all she said is she has unsure feelings for me and doesn’t want a relationship yet. Why is she lying???
Ps I am moving on but I need to clarify a few things between her and I because she always clingy/flirty toward me which sends mix messages.
she is bi curious and i am a lesbian. we been friends for 10 yrs and this has been going on for 10yrs.

i am already dating online and looking at other girls liking my bff for a long time was my fault for not dealing with it earlier but it was her too for not opening up to explain to me her thoughts.


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Open the pod bay doors HAL

"I asked you do you see us being more than friends you said not at the moment no, how am I supposed to move on with that reply?!?!”


The alternative is for you to hang around indefinitely. Consider this; she likes you and doesn't want to hurt your feelings (friends will do that) so instead of just telling you she's not interested in a relationship, she's trying to soften the blow (no pun intended) thinking it won't hurt you so bad. Having read your numerous posts I'm convinced she has no interest, can't or won't give you an absolute answer and you refuse to accept the obvious. You're wasting time and doing yourself no good by continuing this fantasy. My advice, move on to another girl and leave your fantasy behind also. 
Posted 2009-09-11T12:23:52Z
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based upon her comment that she is not quite ready for a relationship, and is at this point, only "bi-curius", it is clearly in your best interest to move forward. let her take her time to sort out her next move-let her come to you, if she so decides.meanwhile, you have the opportunity for formong other important more straigtforward relationships. certainly , keep her as a friend, but not one in whom you confide the intimate details of your other relationships. why? too much room for gameplaying! goodluck.
Posted 2009-09-12T12:48:37Z
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I would suggest that you move on. It is not fair for your friend to pull you around on a string like that. You deserve someone who wants to be with you and only you and is 100% sure of that decision. This doesn't mean that you should cut her out of your life as a friend, but romantically speaking you do deserve better. I wish you the best of luck!
Posted 2009-09-24T12:31:22Z
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because ur friend afried that u will leave him one day thats y he is lying always . he thinks thats if he makes u happy then u will never leave him .wether it is true or lie

 
Posted 2009-10-10T14:06:07Z
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