Is my friend in love with me?

Im in love with this guy! And i think he might love me back! We have been friends for 2 years! Lately he's been acting strange around me like he will slap my butt pop my bra strap look and deep into my eyes. He is been calling me a lot more than normal to talk about really nothing. Im his #1 on myspace! And he will tell me things like that shirt really makes your boobs look good today! The thing that drives him crazy though is when i hang out with this guy whos asked me out several times! He has told him to stay away from me! Do you think he is just fooling around, just being a friend or do you thing he could be in love with me?


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Love is the battery of life....

Hi,


It does not matter what we think about it (if he is in love) and not even what you think, what really matters is what he thinks about it.  The best way to know for sure is to talk to him and find out (shouldn't be a problem after 2 years of friendship).  Prepare the setting, prepare what and how you say it, and then talk to him.... tell him it's time to find out what exactly he means. Tell him you have deep feeling for him (the "L" word is a bit too early use it only at the right time), that you noticed his hints & signals and you want to know what he really means.  It's not time 2B shy, but it's time to know what he really means.  After doing it you'll see it was much easier than you thought.  Yes, as you described it he has strong feeling to you ("L") no doubt.
Best regards,

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Bring it out into the open. You need to have this straightened out as soon as possible cause this state of confusion isn't good for anyone. Being honest and asking him what's up with his behavior are the key to getting some answers.

Don't be afraid of his reaction. Worse comes to worse he'll say it's all in your head. 


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It sounds as though the guy you love is pretty nervous about asking you out, so he does all these little things to you (snap your bra strap, etc). He's pretty affectionate toward you, too. And interested. Break the ice and ask him out! Forget about that other guy telling you to keep away. But, don't try to date both of them. You'll probably lose both.


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OMG i know! He can be pretty rude! Ohh, hay i thought i would let u know that eric told me that he was asking you out on Valantines Day


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OK i just got of the phone with eric he said that he just sent u a message that asked u if you liked him!


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OK, on V-Day he came to my house after school we went on bike rides and just fooled around in the park for a couple of hours. We headed back to my house and it had all ready began to get dark! Well we suck into my backyard. Layed down and looked at the stars. H said that he loves spending times like this with me! We were just laying there talking and then out of the blew he asked me if i wanted to go out with him! An of course i said yes! We have been gong out for a while and im really glad that we are! I love him to death! Ohh.. and hey i guess my other really good guy friend was right!


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