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Why didn’t my BFF apologies for sending me mix messages?
I had a crush on my best friend for many years she can be a clingy flirty person toward me which makes me think she is sending me mix messages. Our other friends notice it too which made them think twice about her sexuality. I asked her to stop being so clingy because I want to move on with my feelings because she only see me as a friend and I want to be just friends. My friend told me she might be bi curious and have undecided feelings toward me, I asked her do you see us being more than friend? And she replied “not at the moment no”. which I think it meant “no I only see you as a friend”, but one thing that is bothering me is that she didn’t apologies for her actions for toying with my feelings. If she knew she see me as a friend then she should at least apologies for sending me mix messages…yeah she didn’t notice her clinginess till now but come on I feel like she just toying with my feelings for all these years.

i am a bisexual 22 yr ol' women


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that is a hard 1 though you did say she said not at the moment which in time itr can be i have to agree with what your friends said though your emotions say something completely. I would say this to you sometime if you 2 are alone try kissing her that will determine alot. i know you dont want to push her away but sometimes the direct approach is needed. Who knows what will happen i know this though you dont want to hold feelings inside as well as she is your BFF. good luck hope you find that happiness

 

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Maybe she really didn't mean to tease you she might have just been trying to be a good friend. At any rate move on and find someone else, there are a lot of people ou there . Good luck in love

 

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Hmmm....I don't think she was using you...she's not a mind reader...You can't blame a straight friend for not reciprocating feelings that you have kept secret until now...

It sounds like you are confused as well though. As it has been my experience that having a crush on someone you deep inside know is unavailable to you means that you are not ready to get into a real relationship with someone who loves you in return... so you are basically hiding by developing feelings for / loving someone who is unnattainable.

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Posted 2009-09-16T21:12:54Z
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