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My best friend doesnt want me to date

my ex boyfriend wants to get back together I said no because I moved on, I text my BFF about this and she agrees that he needs to move on. I text her “I rather date a girl than a guy again” (I’m bi sexual) my BFF texted something awkward “if you do, then who should I date?” I didn’t know what she meant so I asked she texted “have you found someone you want to date?” “no why?“ I asked, she said “I’m just wondering”. I got confused, so I asked if she wanted to date my ex she said no …I even asked if she likes me more than a friend she said “no” I asked her if she just worried that I might avoid her if I start dating. She text with capital letters “I WAS JUST WONDERING”. I didn’t get what she was getting at I try to ask her to explain again but she changed the subject. What’s the deal?!?!?! what should i do... ignore it?


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Turn off the television and teach your children how to think.

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It's called conversation.

It's also called curiosity - and as she said, she "was just wondering."

Quit reading things into remarks that don't belong there and accept her statement at face value, please. 

 
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Maybe you're interested with your BFF and that's why these things come into your mind?

 

Expect nothing but my honest opinion.

I think your friend was just wondering.  The question is, do you like your BFF?  Do you kinda want to date her?  That's a different story and we can work with that if that's the case.  Let us know or shoot me a private message and we'll figure it out. 

 
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Turn off the television and teach your children how to think.

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If you read Lolo's other questions, the answer is yes. She definitely has a big time crush on her BFF.

Her BFF either doesn't return the feelings or has not yet admitted to them - so I think Lolo needs to just let it alone and stop wishing for something to happen that may not ever take place.

You can read between the lines all you want, but sometimes there just isn't going to be anything to see except empty space.

 

i think it sounds like you like your bestfriend and actually I'm in the same situation and she's a lesbin but we've been friends for so long its just not going to happen.. I think you should stop asking her what she means by it and let it go.. If it's going to happen it will if not it will suck and probably hurt a little but thats ok you'll find someone thats right for you, you just have to wait sometimes, but your day will come..

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