I am pissed off at my best friend because she was so unaware that she was hurting me because she kept on teasing with my emotions as in sending me mix messages (flirting, teasing and telling me she has unsure feelings for me (which she doesn’t) her reason of saying that is because she was afraid to lose my friendship), I had the hugest crush on her since high school and my feelings continue because of her clinginess. she can be very oblivious on her actions that she admits that someone has to point it out to her. I asked her numerous times if she liked me more than a friend and she just ignore me so many times which confused and annoyed me, I guess her reason why was that she doesn’t know what to say?!?! We been having this issues for almost forever and we never had closure with each other because we both ignore the issues. We talked over the phone about this and I felt like I was talking to a wall she had no clue or had a sign of any emotion of why I was angry so I told her “don’t call me or text me for 2 weeks because I need time to think, I’ll call you“. She asked “what happens in two weeks?” I said “I don’t know“….so my other BFF tells me to don’t talk to her for a month because she is pissed off at her for treating me like this. You think I should not talk to her for a month? Or will it affect our friendship? The reason I am advising her because I want her to taste her own medicine and I am curious if she cares for our friendship…btw she said that she only see me as a friend like a sister and she is just unsure of her sexuality right now. I was glad that she saw me as a sister but I am upset that she didn’t apologized of leading me on ect…
i am bi sexaul and she is bi curious
we are 22 years old, btw this happen before 2 years ago she apologies for confusing me. now it's happening again becasue of her confusing me AGAIN of her actions and what she says to me. but now she has no clue why i am pissed or why this is contuining.
why cant she just apologiese?
