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Does my best friend/crush have a crush on me?

I just can’t tell, because I know she straight and she knows I am bi sexual but she been acting odd toward me.

Last night we shared a bed and we talk till 4 am. Laura was leaning very close to me almost face to face. I was laying on my back staring at the ceiling trying to avoid eye contact and she laying on her belly staring down at me as I talked. I didn’t want to give her eye contact because I was blushing. But I sometimes glimpse at her here and there while I was talking, when I turn to look at her she was rubbing her lips slowly with her finger tip back and forth while looking down at me. I started to realize that her body is so close to mine and she staring at me, and then

The other night we were talking about going to Japan next year. I realized it takes 14 hours to get there from san Fran. I said “It’ll be so boring, just sitting there forever!” Laura reply “it wont be boring that we’ll be seating together, I can just sleep on you the whole way there”…I didn’t say anything but I wanted to (like maybe flirt back) although I thought it was nothing or was it?

And today I called my best friend Amy who is friends with Laura also. I told Amy everything about Laura and Amy seem confused, she said "I think she likes you, because the last time I was hanging out with Laura she was talking about you allot! I was talking to her about a TV show and Laura just started saying 'Nicky (that’s me) has a cute smile' and she continue talking about the things you do" I was surprised I ask Amy what Laura meant 'the things I do' but she couldn’t remember.

FYI: I am a bi sexual girl and I been friends with Laura for 9 years, I liked her in high school she knows that but she wasn’t interested because she straight. But now I guess time has change.
What should I do? I flirt back with her sometimes and will return the flirting back to me too. but i been through this in high school confused and lost that drove me insane i like her for so long and she just sending me mix signals or whatever i just cant get her. i know i should talk to her about it but i need a 2nd opinon if she seems like she has a crush on me or just being a friendly person.


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Wow! You really have a problem.  On one hand, she seems to want more than friendship, but on the other hand,, if she doesn't, she's a good friend who you might lose if you make advances on her. If there comes a time when your sexual preferences come up in talking to her, you might be able to explore her feelings more. I don't think discussing it with other mutual friends is wise.She surely will hear about it and it's hard to tell how she would react.  Take it slow and, hopefully, you'll find what you're looking for.  Good luck to you.

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Have to tell you, the truth is probably a secret.  She may not want anyone to know that her mind has wandered to the bi side of life.  maybe it is just a sexual curiosity.  Why dont you do this....next time you have the situation occur, simply say something like, "you are looking at me like I am on the menu"... Do not embarass her by mentioning this in front of witnesses, just say what you think might be on her mind.  or...you could just... tell her that "I would love to....with you!  You know how I am and I can tell your curious what I am like"  or you could just get closer to her when she is in your face, and see if she stays where she is or moves away.  If she stays there or moves closer, "Nail her with a kiss"  tease her into your web and see what comes of your suspicions.  I am interested to find out what happens..HAVE FUN!!

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