What do i do?

If you are told you have a pushy personality then you have to work on it. What you may ask or say in one sentence draw out to five in order to ensure that she can comment or respond. Allow her to express herself. Deflect the conversation from personality to other things such as interesting plays, concerts, books you have read. Try to be more on the receiving end rather than being aggressive. In other words don't try so hard.

The best way to find "true love" is to stop looking for it.

True love comes with time. It is not something that rushes up to you, hits you over the head and drags you off to happily ever after.

True love stems from a relationship and the strongest relationships often begin with friendship.

That's because if you don't genuinely LIKE each other, it's damn hard to love each other during the bad times - and there will be bad times.

True love comes along with diapers and illness and no money and family disagreements and outside pressures and temptations and all kinds of other stuff.

But it also comes with honesty and fun and trust and happiness and respect and support, along with everything else.

Please learn how to love and respect yourself, first. Then get to know and respect the women in your life, as well as the new women you happen to meet.

It's a sure bet that one of those women will end up being your "true love."

P.S. The best way to 'meet' a woman is usually to say 'hello' and then to stop talking and listen to her answers.

You need to calm down. I have a pretty intense personality myself, but unless you control it, it comes across as desperation, and no women you would want to be with likes desperation.

Here's the thing. Don't try to impress. Don't try to run a line. Don't do anything but be honestly yourself. If you see a woman you like, just tell her you would enjoy talking to her, learning about her and getting to know her better. Listen to what she has to say and remember it. You'd be surprised how many men talk only about themselves to a woman, and how very few of them remember anything she had to say. Just the fact that you genuinely listen and remember will go a long way with any woman. If you have a good sense of humor and can make her laugh and enjoy your company, so much the better.

Hi I think you need to talk to a girl you have been with but stayed in touch with and make her explain to you how she sees you. Knowing your problem is one step to over coming it. Seems like you are aware of one, but about finding true love I would say it might take a while. Maybe a your true love would love a pushy man. Try to be relaxed , try talking to your friends to get some more insights on how to do it. Sometimes one sentence fomr a close friend can really change your attitude.