i have fallen victom to the payday loan trap. it has affected my marriage, as well as my credit worthyness. i do want to honor my obligatins, but i cant pay off one at a time without closing my account which my husband forbids me to do. is there another way to pay them one at a time without having legal action taken against me? i tried to work with a couple of lenders who said that they will stop the fees. but will not accept a monthly payment because i get paid weekly. i do not want to keep taking out payday loans to pay fees on existing loans because i will never get out of this mess