Hi,
It looks like 2 things here:
1. Both of you are emotionally immature.(sorry to say that) That is my observation.
2.That you are not compatible at all.
So my advice is:
1. You are young at 20, you need to focus all your energy on going to school, finishing college and be a respectable, productive, self -sufficient man who will have something to offer to the woman that you
will marry eventually.
A lot of times young kids don't like my kind of response but this is an advice from someone a lot older than you to be my kid. I have seen young people bent on a lot of sex, then they have children born out of wedlock, children who are not properly provided by parents who are young like yo, without the proper education, not having the proper career
and not making enough money to support the children they bring to this world. I am a Registerd Nurse in Labor and Delivery and I always see people your age or younger , who bring kids to this world and just end up being a burden to the government because they cannot afford hospitalization, can't afford to buy formula for their kids.
The result of all these hurrying up, getting girls pregnant at a young age, is counterproductive to our society as a whole. Working people are the ones who pay taxes religiously and we have to support the people who made the wrong decisions in life.
So please don't get slighted with what I had to say here. I am just tired of paying taxes that are used for people who cannot afford any health coverage and don't have any money. These things are just brought on by the ignorance, lack of personal responsibility, and the wrong choices that people make. There is no reason for poverty in this country. After all this is the land of opportunity, there are student grants and loans available for everyone who want and desire to make their lives better.
So here you go, make a good intelligent choice and prove to yourself and to your parenrs that you will be a successful man that they could be proud of. You take care.