Your best bet is to seek legal advice by having a consultation with an experienced Family Law attorney.
Take the Judgment and any other pertinent documents with you to the appointment and ask the attorney for an opinion as to your next course of action.
(I am not an attorney, but I used to work in Family Law. In my opinion, if the consolidation of the cases was court generated or otherwise not requested by you, and if you were not seeking legal fees from the other party on your own behalf; I believe you can make a fairly strong case for your exclusion from this Judgment.)
The attorney will review your paperwork. Then, depending on what the Judgment states, it is entirely possible that you will be able to file paperwork excluding you from the Orders. And if so, you can either retain an attorney of your choosing or represent yourself in the matter.
(If you represent yourself in the matter, please be sure to follow the attorney's advice when filling out and filing your documents, so that you don't inadvertently make things worse.)
If you do not know any attorneys, contact your state's Bar Association for a referral to an attorney in your area (there is usually a small fee for this service).
