ok! i only have one or maybe 2 questions to ask you before i can answer this, if you dont mind... ok when she goes out dancing, does she call you to check in to let you know that she is doing ok? and 2 ,has she ever asked you to go out dancing with her? 3 sorry 3 questions, how do you feel every time she does go out with out you? those questions should be answered because if you have to come on here and ask what we think, then something has got to be wrong , your feeling something in your gut telling you right? im sorry but if i were you , i would go with my gut feeling not your heart on this one ok? hope this helped you a little bit anyways, good luck kittykatt67