I had a problem getting preg. with my third child which I am six weeks preg. with now. It seemed like as hard as I tried (six months) I never concieved until I didn't try at all. It is stressful wanting a baby especially if you don't have one. But it is not all flowers and candy those symptoms kick your butt. So if you are ready stop thinking about it and it will happen. Then you will have bigger things to worry about. Good Luck!