Yes , please get her to go to a counler for help. I dont know if you knew her before the accident, but it would help if you went together. Is she taking any anxiety pills. Has she seen a regular doctor about her nerves? She has had a truamatic experence and will need to have someone that know's about these things, she should of already been doing this, there is help out there. There are people that are called advocates for people that have lost a love one from sudden death. I went to one with my grandaughter to help us, after my daughters death along with my son-in-law and grandson. They helped us, but it just takes time but it never goes away. Alchol is the worst thing she should have. Please have her go to a reagular doctor first and he can recommend what kind of counciler she will need. Good luck and help her. I will pray for both of you.
God bless
Nanadee 
