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I like one of my collegur in my office who is ...

I like one of my collegur in my office who is married and a soldier. I have a fiancee but I am not totally happy with him. I never wanted to tell my collegue that. But in a party I told him that and kissed him passionately. After that he tried to explain me taht is not right. BUt I cannot forget him. I am gonna crazy. I know we cannot be together but I want to be with him. His wife is going to be with after 3 years of separation. I like him. He is that man I dreamed always. I just want a chnce to meet him again. How can I forget him. I just want to atleast hug and kiss him. What is that all regulation when my heart burns all the time. help.

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Posted 2009-10-23T07:43:50Z
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DB Lady

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Be honest and be true to yourself.

Rimi,

That is crazy. You know that the man is married and you still want to get together with him. Knock it off, Get over it. What you're doing is wrong. Find a single person who is available for you.

Obey the Golden Rule.

Posted 2009-10-23T11:21:31Z

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URI93

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Sometimes we put up walls not to keep people out, but to see who cares enough to break them down.

Rimi, I agree with DB. You are living in a fantasy world where everything revolves around you and your wants. You need to come back down to earth and realize that there are other people involved. Breaking up a marriage is totally wrong and you need to realize it.. You also said you are not happy with your fiancee. You need to stop using him, and let him find someone who will make him happy. Go find someone else who is single.

Posted 2009-10-23T17:15:55Z

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