Don't marry the one you can live with marry the one you can't live without!
Trust your "gut" feeling. Don't lead him on don't tell him you love him. If he doesn't get what he wants in time he will be in love with the very next person that comes along. There is nothing wrong with you some people you will connect with and other's you won't. I also agree with eldon what is his past like ? You really don't need a needy man
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