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Why do we fall in love?

People have been falling in love ever since the Adam and Eve met in the Garden of Eden (or since we stood on two legs, whichever theory you prefer). So...

Why do we fall in love?

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i think that we fall in love becouse we feel conection to another person that makes us hape that gets us higher that makes us feel good that we are special unique and that other person is also very special and unique to us.



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From what I have observed it's a combination of hormones and a need to posses what makes you feel good.  Lets put aside all that mumbo jumbo love is magical crap. You put the these 2 major ingredents together you get " Love"

1) Lust... The need to breed, that's why you go after people that physically attracts you. 

2) selfishness... You want that person because he/she fills you sexual, mental, emotional needs and don't want to share her/him with anyone else. So you marry them. A modern mans way of saying " she/he's mine so hands off. Animals do the same thing by urinating to mark their territory, securing their breeding rights.

 Love is not anything magical, it's just chemicals in the brain, man being guided by instincts. We just put a label on it "love" to justify what we are doing.


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well no man i mean you are tottaly wrong. whats the matter with you. love is a special thing. and its not even a little selfish you must be very stuppid if you think in that way abbout love. and something else afcourse there no such thing as magic but its kind of magical love in some way.  and when youre in love the chemical things or sex are on the last place on the list. those arent things that are so important in love!!!!!!


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I am a Longs Drugs Store Historian) & I will help everyone who needs advice on: Relationship sittuations, Issues , many other things.

For many centuries many have wondered that same question for years upon years - On , on ,on thrught , through.

Not very many have come up with the actual answer to it but I can tell you that when we do fall in love with someone its not instink or nothing near that its an emotional connection that is not noticed or anniliyzed to where it is activated in the human brain at all infact its known that the brain is still unknown of how it works , the things that activates the sences that we all get internaly , other wise.

It is said that its the its easy as looking at who ever is well dressed in any thing , groomed etc. but that is not true it is if you can tell how the person is from with in , they have to be able to do the same when it pretaines to you that is one way but not everyone gose by that all they go by is how hot  the girl looks in a tight skirt , blouse or tanktop with a g string etc , how good the guy looks , notice its always on the apperance of the person on the outside that is not what tells you or anyone about that one person. its all about who they are from with in , It is importaint to look nice but its all about the person of who they are from with in as it is the same with you as well.


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i thk whn we c a person for ourselevs thn we fall in love

 


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"Love me then thats cool, Hate me then whatever ive got others better than you."

Im only 14 but i think when we see someone that we find attractive and funny sweet or whatever you enjoy and you really get to know that person you have a lot of feelings for them like you want to care for them and hold them and watch out for them and i think thats why you fall in love because you are with that person doing the things you want and love.


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