Have you had an experience with a woman with BIG sex drive.

Yes. My ex-girlfriend was constantly in the mood and it was difficult to keep up with her. At first, it was so sexy, but then it started to make me feel inadequate. She was always initiating and would not take no for an answer. Eventually it caused a big fight and we ended up breaking up. I never thought that too much sex could possibly be a reason to cause a break up. It always seemed like it would be a dream come true for me until I actually encountered it. I think that there is an unfair double standard that we men set up for ourselves. We're supposed to want sex all the time and the women are stereotypically supposed to be rejecting us. If a woman says no then we are supposed to respect that and not take it personally, but if a guy says no then there is something wrong with him (or he's gay). My advice to a guy who is with a woman with such a big sex drive, is to talk to her about it and let her know that while he loves having sex with her, he needs a break from time to time.

Yes, my first wife needed sex 31 days out of the month, preferably several times each day. Even after many years of marriage. It did become more and more difficult to "recharge my batteries" so to speak. Boy, was she sexually innovative in bed, and really loved an orgasm or two before, during and after sexual activity. Thank goodness for vibrators, as I couldn't keep pace with her desires. Some nights (rare) I just wanted a merciful break from it all, but nevertheless she would "wake me up", even when I was pretending to be deeply asleep. By and large, the overall experience was great and I have no complaints, especially as my second wife unexpectedly turned out to be entirely sexless. Poetic justice!

The downside to the hyper-sexed wife is that, I guess, she needed more sex than I could possibly give her in several life-times. She ran off with a much younger man!

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You call that a big sex drive! At the end of college I lived with a girl that was very needy.The first two months we lived together, we did it at least ten times a day. Finally I demanded we go see a movie. We went to a movie, and did it in the car before before getting home. I told her we had to go out more often, and must develop other interests.

 The next two years we both worked, still we did it seven times a day. Again I said we had to do other things because I was getting sore. Her answer was oral sex a few times a day. I asked if we could go out with another couple for something to eat. She thought I meant swinging with them orally. I was tiring of her, and said yeah. The other guy had gotten fat, but the gal still looked great. She was mad that I would do that to her. Know it was going to end, I said the following to lessen the pain. I said we should just do a threesome with the girl, I had always wanted her badly. She got so mad, she told me to leave. We did have to do it one last time.

Hi guys well I'm the female with the (as my loving husband says) Hyper Over Drive, Sex drive I want to first say I'm sorry for those of you that your partners left. My husbands label is an understatement right now I could go at it all day and night but my Husband can't keep up (and I completely understand it) and you know we are both enjoying it the waiting is the hardest part but when we lay down together it is the best and it gets better every time, masturbation is only a stress relief and not satisfying there are other forms of sex that can be very satisfying and enjoyable. The waiting and the frustration of getting to the time of sweet passionate Love Making is worth the frustration and waiting. I would walk around completely frustrated for years before I'd leave my man sex is a part of love but there is so much more to love than sex understanding, caring, respect, consideration, I understand the fact that my love can not keep up I would rather be frustrated as HELL than to leave him he is my rock foundation  now I know this sounds like we have a perfect marriage  and that  is so far from the truth we have just as many problems as any other married couple you have to have TRUE LOVE which is UNDERSTANDING of each others needs or not needs

Jen