Should I call my ex?

Please go on with your life. "Unsure" means he does not want to continue the relationship. He just wanted to break it to you gently.

Baby, you are NOT alone!.  We have all been in your particular siuation at least once in our romantic lives.  Do yourself a BIG FAVOR and let yourself off the hook!  First of all, you are only in control of your behavior and actions and his speak much louder than words.  Don't worry, I have nothing mean to say nor would I, as I would only be speaking ill of myself, girlfriend.  Even the smartest women in the world fall for the less desirables. 

Don't stoop to his level.  Don't call him, or have any contact with him.  Let him figure out what HE did to deserve the "cold shoulder".  Talking to him gives him the license to treat you any way he wants because he knows you will always come back.

Love yourself first.  Maybe when you have your head in the right place, his will follow.  Good luck, I will be watching!

I would not contact him .  Save yourself alot of hurt , pain and sorrow , he's told you he doesn't know what he wants .  Which means whatever it is it does not include you .  Sorry !   If he decides it's you he wants he will let you know .  If you are available and still feel the same way then you can resume your relationship with him , but not till he shows some signs of wanting to be with you .  Up to now he has not shown one sign , actions do speak louder than words .  It is very possible that he's with someone else , reason for breaking it off with you and not seeing his friends as much withdrawing as you called it . I think you need to move on with your life , you are 18 years old alot of life ahead of you .  We as women teach men how to treat us , my Father told me this a long time ago , he was right then and he's still right .  Do not put your life on hold for this guy , do not put yourself in a postion that could keep you from meeting Mr Right , a man who loves you and knows what he wants  , that being you without a shadow of a doubt .  Good Luck .

Greetings BabyC91,

If you feel like calling him to see if he is okay, then I don't see any reason not to do it as long as that is truly the reason you would be doing so - to check in on a friend.  People make their choices and sometimes it is very hard to allow them to make the choices, especially in a relationship.  He has made his choice and all you can do is be a friend to him. If he does not respond, then give him his space.  As a relationship expert, I see too many people not giving the other their space and pushing to have the relationship which causes more harm than good. You are a good friend to check in on him from time to time.  If he responds, great, if he does not, then you have your answer.  Check out my blog  register for more goodies on the newsletter and the singles free e-course which will give you even more tips.

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