There are plenty of men out there and time is everything. Don't think this is your only chance to be in love or in a relationship. Tell him to not call you and you don't call him. The more you have contact the more you are gonna want and be focused on just him. If there is a baby that is a blessing and he isn't so find someone who thinks and wants the same. Trust me you don't want to have a baby with someone who doesn't want you. I am going through a custody battle and I have lost money and lawyers and my rights as a mother its not fun. He won't change even with a baby. I 'm still going through this since 2006, don't make the same mistake I made with the wrong guy. I did, in my time of need through all of this find a man to stick with me and love me and my child, so true love is out there. There is someone out there for you so just give it time. As hard as it is to wait find something recreational to keep you busy. Good luck I hope that you find your path because he isn't apart of it, he's blocking your path so knock him down and move on.....