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My ex girlfriend is holdind my daughter like ransom what should i do???

I recently lost my job and i have a 2 year old daughter and me and her mother are no longer together not by my choice i still love her deeply.My problem is i have fallen behind on my support payments (2 to be exact).We never went to court because everything was going smoothly until i lost my job now she is holding my little girl like ransom if i have no money to give her she wont let me see her.I dont wanna take her to court because i loove her still and dont wanna mess anything up if there is a chance that we may get back together but i will not be called a deadbeat or sperm donor because i am neither one of those things i am just having money problems right now so what do i do take her to court and risk losing her for good or beg and plead to see my daughter I LOVE THEM BOTH SO MUCH AND I DONT WANT TO MESS ANYTHING UP CAN SOMEONE PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE I AM HEARTBROKEN AND SCARED I WONT SEE MY BABYGIRL AS MUCH AS I USED TOO


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Who's more important? your baby girl or the mother? Look you need to make a choice a hard on but a choice, you beg she knows she can get you to do anything believe me I'm a woman I know. You need to let her know you are serious about this and to be honest it sounds like you are the only one with any love here, it belongs with your daughter not her!! I suggest to go to court before she does and that's coming from a single mom you are one in a million think of your baby you can always replace the woman but not the little girl!!!
Posted 2009-08-28T02:11:34Z
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If you think things can't get worse it's probably only because you lack sufficient imagination.

This all needs to be addressed legally... whether the two of you get back together or not.  Any child support paid directly to her without an order from the court or a legal agreement will be considered a donation and NOT child support.  Visitation needs to be established also.  Once that happens, even if you are behind on child support, she cannot withhold the child.  Get legal aid and take care of your business...
Posted 2009-08-31T16:33:42Z
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i would take her to court it is your little girl you are talking about i know how you feel. choose the little girl
Posted 2009-09-02T13:47:26Z
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