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life is too short for drama and petty things, so kiss slowly, laugh insanely, love truly, and forgive quickly.

Me and my ex have been apart for almost 3 months ...

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hmm..we actually went thru the same situation. everything. like the part were you still hang out together, and he tells you about what's happening to him and this other girl... and we also came at a point when we looked and acted like we were back together, but the thing is, there wasn't really any agreement on the said topic-  it's like i was ready and he was ready, but he still didn't want to get back together... so what we both did was talk about it thoroughly, and agree that BOTH of us are going to wait for a while. but at that moment, i asked him upfront whether he does want to get back together or was just with me 'just because' he's waiting for something else. I told him i didn't want to be a rebound girl. and he clarified that he does want that also, he does want to get back together, but not immediately after breaking up with the other one.

so at the time being, i'd suggest to ask him. face to face. no walls. ask him straight on what's he's planning to do, with your relationship. and then work on the answer. clariy points, tell him your thoughts, and ask him about his also.

Posted 2008-05-19T01:52:31Z
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When in doubt...get the hell out!

No offense, and I could very well be wrong but....it sounds like he is just stringing you along "just in case". The thing is, how many other girlfriends is he going to test before he decides wether you are the one or not. Men like that need to "s*&t or get off the pot" it is not fair that he is having fun and freedom to go out with others while keeping you on the back burner, knowing (with your voiced opinions on how you feel about him) that you are holding a candle for him. You sound like a girl that deserve better than that. Go out and live your life girl, stop being a number 2 to someone and be someones number 1! (thats the advise I got once and it woke me up) I hope the best for you--if it was meant to be...it will. You go girl!!! 

 
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There is too much negative in your relationship that should have been cut cleanly when you broke up. If you and he get back together I am almost positive you will break up again. Look for a better and healthier relationship with someone who doesn't have all that baggage. You will be better for it.

 
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life is too short for drama and petty things, so kiss slowly, laugh insanely, love truly, and forgive quickly.

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Posted 2008-06-09T22:18:53Z

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