What a dilehma!!! Stuck in the middle and don't know what to do

I have read through your other questions . You have been given some very good advice and continue not to take it .   This older man is NOT interested in a long term serious relationship with you , he is interested in using you as you have been told in one of your other questions .  It is important to like your partner in life but it is also important to truly love the man you are going to spend your life with .  I personally do not think you love either one of them .  It is very clear to me that you are young , confused and don't know what you want .  Stay away from your Friend's Father he is not being honest with you and is of extremely low character .  Certainly do not move in as he suggested . You are an attention seeker and this could very well one day get you in trouble .  You are being unfaithful to your Boyfriend , you like and are seeking attention from other men , that is emotional infidelity and it is wrong and it is deceitful  .  Do the right thing be honest with your Boyfriend .  He has told you he loves you wants to marry when he finishes college . He is trying to bulid a future for the two of you .  Apparently you do not feel the same , and that's your choice , but it is your moral obligation to be honest with him .  Allow him to find a girl who wants the same things out of life , will be faithful to him and actually loves him .  And that's not you .   You are not stuck anywhere , this is a willful decision on your part . Take control of your life .

I think the key to this entire drama is the word LIKE. "I knew he liked me but didn't think it got to that point, now the thing is I have thought about it and I like him the same way."    You don't marry someone you LIKE and I'm getting the impression you don't know what LOVE is just yet.

You will Know you love someone when you Know that there is NO one else on this plant you could ever picture yourself with. Then wait A year that is only 365 days. Do you still fill as madly in love and can't picture yourself with anyone else.

If you can see your self with someone else , which apparently you do because you are holding on to both of them then you don't love either of them the way that is needed for marriage. Your type of love here is more like you love a friend.

You don't marry the person you can live with you marry the one you can't live with out.  I responded to your last post on this and  didn't recieve any feed back on my questions but  apparantly your more comfortable with the age difference.

I agree with equus on the "You are not stuck anywhere , this is a willful decision on your part . Take control of your life . "   This is life this is a part of growing and learning. You have juggled your emotions over the both of them its time to choose but its not between the two of them You have to choose to continue to play with their emotions or Choose to Figure out for your self what you want.

You don't have to marry either. but to continue to juggle both of them is unfair to them.   Do you live on your own?  If not you should for some time so you can decide who you are and what you want and what you can accomplish.

Good luck!

Your type of love here is more like you love a friend. or Lust which can be stronger than either kind of Love but only for a brief period of time. Lust will burn out and then there is nothing between you.

you appear to be a pig. if a man would have asked this question he would have been called far worse for playing the field. being a female does NOT excuse your behavior. either you are young and insecure or you are old and playing the field. either way both men deserve  better than an apparent role of ego boosting to you. you need to develop better morals and hang around people who will judge your actions for what they are.....pathetic. good luck to the men around you

Thumbs up Equus.. Well I have to admit, I didn't read any of your other questions because once I saw this one, frankly I didn't need to.  

First of all, your friends dad is way out of line here.   I am guessing that since your 'boyfriend' is in college, that makes your age somewhere between 18 & 22.  Then I'll take another guess that the friends dad is somewhere between 38 & 44.  If, at somewhere between your late 30's and early to mid 40's, your not mature enough as a man to reach for anything beside your daughter's friends as a mate, I am certainly going to question your integrity.  Enough said about him.

Let's move on to the boyfriend.  He is in college, is level headed enough to finish school so that he can provide for himself and a spouse.  

And there's you.  You haven't even developed enough patience to wait for your boyfriend while he accomplishes the task at hand.  In addition to that, you begin a romantic encounter with your friends dad.  You crossed at least two lines right there.  My advice to you is to grow up, go to college yourself and develop your own maturity before marrying anyone.  You aren't ready.

PS... The BS about neither of them being able to live without you?   Don't count on it.  If you keep playing this game with two people's hearts, you'll end up alone....so work on that degree!