ROMANCE, take your time...do what she wants.  Don't be selfish in the bedroom guys...it takes a lot longer for women.  You want it, then take your time & lots of foreplay!!!  Take her an adult store, get some fun stuff (toys & videos), then to a hotel for the night, have a couple of drinks (not totally drunk, you want her to remember the good job you're gonna do!), & GO AT IT!!! :)   Oh yeah, talk dirty flirty with her, be loving & gentle, & hold yourself back for as long as you can so she gets the attention she needs.  Good luck!!!