You make Christmas what you want it to be. If you are easily influenced by commercialism, then Christmas becomes a money sucking experience. If it is a time of love, sharing, joy, family, then you can do what my family does and make all your gifts. You can write poetry to your siblings, crochet blankets for your aunts and build the perfect birdhouse for your father. You give of yourself and you put your heart and soul and love into what you create. Christmas is a wonderful time to slather love all over your friends and family. I adore Christmas! It has no religious meaning to me whatsoever, but it is, for me, a time to invest myself in the happiness of the people I care about. Christmas is about love, as is the meaning of life. Love is everything. But, our world makes it difficult to be able to show our love to everyone every day. So, having a holiday that gives you that opportunity is a precious thing.
On that note, I hope everyone has a Happy Thanksgiving! Revel in the joy of your blessings!!