How to deal with a cheating husband

Hi,

   He has cheated many times.  If I were you, I'd tell him goodbye for good.  It's very dangerous to get any sexually transmitted disease from him.  You are endangering your own life.  He does not deserve you.  File a divorce and move on with your life.  This is not easy to do but for your own safety and sanity, get out of that marriage.  You deserve better.

Take care and be strong.

He is scum! All those women who spread their legs without satisfaction (no doubt)are scum too! Rise above it by realizing you are not scum, and now you need to avoid it! Remember High-school when there were certain people you just didn't want to associate yourself with?  Well here are more of them! Serve the (wanna be husband) with his walking papers before you catch something!

You are beautiful, smart and classy. You deserve better.  Walk away and leave it at that.

Divorce.

He has hurt you deeply but he may have wanted to get it off his chest since he is in a war torn county. Maybe he sees what he's done and is afraid of dying so he is trying to make his peace with you and God.It is terrible to find out all this when you know these other women, but they usually choose someone you know. If you can't truly forgive him, then get out of the situation. I can't believe he would have told you if he had been stationed in the states. I don't know him, but I wish to believe he wouldn't hurt you deliberately. You have to make a decision not us, so I wish both of you well.

If he hurt you so many times then you must file a divorce.  When you also see her girls try to drink low acid coffee at hevla this can prevent heartburn. :)

Yes i say if he has done this is the case he is only using being in Iraq is why he cheated on you this amount of times with 8 friends of yours then they are not your friends as sooner or later it would get back to you as you know these whor-- my best advice to you is get the he-- away from him D-I-V-O-R-C-E is the ONLY way out.As hes has done this before if you take a reality check of your self YOU are better than that and you also desirve better than him. But dont just jump in bed with the first man you meet you are better than that and you can rise above that level so dont stoop to his level as you are better than that. But as you go take all with you as you dersive more than it as he thought he done this behind your back what makes you think that he wount do it when he comes home now he knows how to do it with your so called friends you dont need him or them. Hold your head up high and say to them you are better than them. Be proud of who you are and not a street corner who-- like these so callied ladies as their is one on every street corner all you have to do is look around and open your eyes. He has done at least 8 times hold on there are more to come. Get the he-- out while the getting is good.

Once is enough..twice is too much..leave him and find a better person for you.

The name Bobbitt comes to mind here...Seriously, it's time to ditch.  He is a scumbag and the 8 girls who had sex with him are no better.   Find a way to move on because he is not going to change or improve for years to come.  Make sure he supports you while you work out what you are going to do, since it is by his actions that you need to make a change.  If he doesn't support you, call his commanding officer and report him.