A:matthutton,
You cannot get your ex back unless your ex wants to get back with you. Questions to ask yourself would be...
- What ended this relationship?
- How will we address the problems, so they don't re-occur if we were to try this again?
- Will both of us be able to give 100% in order for the relationship to last long-term?
- Have we forgiven ourselves and each other for the mistakes of the past?
- Is this relationship going to be better tomorrow than it was yesterday?
- Will we be happier together or happier as friends and just resolving problems of the past?
Best wishes to you both, whatever you decide.
Blessings,
~ nmpb ~